Category Archives for Marriage

4 Effective Ways to Connect With a Spouse Who Works Too Much

At least 50 percent of Americans work more than 40 hours a week. Eighteen percent work 60 hours or more. That’s according to a recent Gallup poll. Long hours at work put in day after day can put a strain on a marriage, whether it’s by one or both spouses.If you’re the spouse spending evenings […]

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5 Communication Habits that Ruin a Marriage

Witty remarks between couples might be good for a few laughs on a TV sitcom, but in a real marriage they often chip away at the positive feelings between a couple. In communication between married couples, one “zinger” erases 20 acts of kindness. This conclusion comes from relationship researchers Howard Markman and Clifford Notarius.In martial […]

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3 Powerful Habits that Inspire Trust in Your Spouse and Children

Without trust, marriages and families become a source of disappointment and pain. Says the Irish proverb, “When mistrust comes in, love goes out.”David Horsager is one of the world’s leading authorities on trust and author of The Trust Edge. In his book, Horsager writes, “If you want to build trust and earn the faith and […]

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Help for Married Couples Who Fight About Nothing

Conflicts between married couples are a normal part of growing together. But there’s a difference between conflicts that involve working out solutions and conflicts that break out into a fight. Solution-focused conflicts often bring couples closer to each other. Fights usually leave one or both spouses feeling hurt by the other and are often about […]

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Couples’ Fights Over Finances aren’t about the Money

When married couples fight about finances, it’s most often about spending and saving. Seventy-two percent of couples with conflicts over money have a problem with their spouse’s spending. Just as many said they have trouble saving money. This is according to the National Survey of Marital Strengths conducted by Prepare/Enrich.  It comes as no surprise […]

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Why Families Should Be Intentional About Sharing Experiences

Chocolate tastes better when it’s tasted with another person. Happy movies produce more happiness when viewed with others. Pleasant images bring more enjoyment when seen with someone else. These findings are from recent research on the effects of shared experiences on our well-being.Social psychologist Erica Boothby along with colleagues at Yale University conducted the chocolate-tasting […]

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4 Good Reasons to Save Your Marriage

“This marriage was a mistake.” That’s the conclusion of many disappointed husbands and wives who at one time dreamed of living happily ever after with their spouse. Men and women in this state of mind often see divorce as the best remedy for their unhappiness. Then, sooner or later, over half of the men and […]

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3 Rules Married Couples Need about Their Parents

Married couples often struggle with how to deal with their parents. Disagreements on how much, or how little, influence to accept from their parents is often a source of conflict, especially for newlyweds and new parents. Sometimes parental advice feels like meddling, especially when it involves grandchildren. Other times it’s not the parents’ advice that’s […]

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5 Signs You’re Too Critical of Your Spouse

You might be too critical of your spouse and not know it. You probably think you’re providing “feedback,” or “constructive criticism.” But from your spouse’s point of view, you’re too negative. Criticism often creeps into marriages unnoticed at first. It’s likely to have been present before a couple’s wedding day. It escaped notice because it […]

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